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"Changing your self image can change your life.
Changing your self image begins with changing your Self
Talk."
Dr. Jim Will
Are you talking yourself into achieving less than your potential in life?
Oh, not consciously, of course, no one would do that purposely. But you may be doing it, just the same.
In recent years, we have come to understand more about the relationship between our thoughts
and our actions, or the results of our actions. It has become clear how strongly the outcomes of our daily lives
are influenced by what we say, or think, to ourselves.
Sometimes our thinking empowers us to do things that seem impossible.
Sometimes it sabotages the very success we seek. Most importantly, I've learned that we can control our thinking by
choosing to control our Self Talk. This talk is the "programming" that shapes our self image, and our self image
more than any other factor determines our "limits" in life. Our thoughts can determine what we believe about
ourselves. Our beliefs, in turn, can determine whether we succeed or fail in many areas
of our lives. When we control our thoughts, we also control many things that happen to us.
This goes far beyond positive thinking because it focuses on stopping the
negative Self Talk, that, if unchecked, undermines any positive thoughts you might have. You can replace negative
statements with positive statements that are targeted to help you succeed. Your chances for
improved success are high and are real, if you use the principles in The Power of Self Talk. The
principles in my book are tested and have helped many, many people over a number of years.
In the Self Talk Toolkit, you will explore how to increase and encourage
positive, helpful thoughts and how to banish negative and harmful thoughts. Control of Self Talk is
essential. If we allow negative Self Talk to continue, our brain tends to ensure that negative thoughts become our
reality.
The first step in controlling Self Talk is to become aware of it. Once we are aware
of what we are saying, we can change our Self Talk, if we want to. Change is possible for us all, and it
can be easy. If we want to change, we can make changes in our lives immediately! It doesn't have to be a long,
drawn-out process.
By changing and controlling your Self Talk, you can learn how to create
comfort zones and self images that work for you!
Self talk, self-esteem, and self-confidence are interlinked in such a way as to produce the
results you achieve in life. For much of my career as a consultant to individual and
corporations, I have studied the high performer to understand the components that create success in
life.
Take the famous example of the runners who sought to break the once "impossible" four-minute
mile. For many years this goal seemed beyond man's abilities. Then, one individual beat that record and proved that it could be
done. Soon dozens of runners were able to beat that mark, and now, many years later, it is commonplace.
Think about it for a moment. What really are our limits?
For Information on my new
"Power of Self Talk Toolkit" click here.
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